DISQUS

bhebie · 1 year ago

Hey girl z47

I'm glad you're moving on--not because I think you're better off, but because you chose this for the best. I know that you really did love Shou. I could tell that he still means a lot to you. I'm kinda sad that your relationship had to end that way.

You knew you really had to end it, because as an individual, you have your own choices to make. It's just not fair that he feels like he's supposed to make the decisions between you guys, especially when he knows how you roll. YEAHHH~

Moving on isn't always a bad thing--yeah you leave someone behind, but at least you're not the one being left behind :app6: You gotta start new. Find a someone else who would take care of you and who really deserves you, and hope that this one stays around.

Anywho, hope the best for you, baby girl <3 ^^;;

Kitty · 1 year ago

I wish all the best for you Jays :white10: hope u will find someone that take care of you :app2:

caille · 1 year ago

:white06: ganda i dunno what to say pero sobrang alam ko nararamdaman mo:( hay ang hirap tlga pag nawala na PAGMAMAHAL mo sa isang tao.. Tama lng ginawa mo sis. kasi pra mahanap mo san ka masaya.. honto wa unfair dayo.. ganyan asawa ko eh. dakara ima ai ga nakunatta. nde nmn fully pero sukoshi nawawala.

Basta girl alam mo busy ako, pero isang mail mo lng alam mo sasagot agad ako.. itsumo kokoni iru yo.. love you ganda muah! shiawase naru kara zettai!

agent pink thong · 1 year ago

this is the first time i'm leaving a post again after awhile (i had a different id then) but following your life story is like watching a series on tv and i just can't stand the thought of you both in separate ways.. so onto your dilemma.. you'll be back together in no time. that's a promise! guys make rash decisions and realize their stupidity not till later. five years is an awful long time to just throw away a relationship.

thinz · 1 year ago

awww ganda, sorry to hear this but i'm also happy for you... not because i'm being mean or anything pero you don't deserve to be treated that way... after 5 years he'll break up with you dahil lang dun? pano pa pag nagasawa na kayo? tama na lang din to kse you'll get your chance to be happy again & trust me you will.... malay mo yung next guy pala is the right guy na tlaga... & unfair tlaga yung gusto nya kse nde nman pwedeng laging kayong 2 na lang, you need to have time for yourself, your friends... *hugs* na lang ganda & i know you'll get through this, we're just here. mwahhh

Valerie · 1 year ago

aww jays sorry ha pero yung sasabihin ko kung brutal man galing sa puso ko pag pasensyahan mo ko pero sa akin sis advice ko tama lang yung ginawa mo na sinundan mo yung puso mo dahil lahat tayo we deserve to be happy ganyan na ganyan din si sonny noon bawal ako sa lahat and i must say i was very unhappy kasi binago nya yung pagkatao ko into someone na ayoko maging gets mo? kung kayo naman talaga kasi ni shou babydoll dibah magiging kayo rin no matter. Masaya ako na malungkot Jays kasi syempre kapatid kita noh :white10: alam ko you deserve someone that will treat you the way you deserve yung hahayaan ka maging ikaw at di ka pagbabawalan sa mga bagay na makakapag pasaya sayo.. nalulungkot lang isipin na after 5 years mangyayari ito awww per regardless babydoll with shou, single or with someone else as a friend of yours masaya ako basta masaya ka.. love kaya kita.....

love you ganda and remember andito lang kami muwahhh!!! :white10:

Danna · 1 year ago

hi ate ganda ♥

sa totoo lang, medyo malungkot ako kasi sayang yung 5 years na nagsama kayo..
pero yun nga, maxado ngang overprotective si kuya shou kaya siguro it really is for the best, hehe :)

i-enjoy ang buhay single!! hehe ;)
imagine, after 5 years e single ka na ulit, whoot! hehe ;)

basta smile lang nang smile ate jays :D
love you!! ♥
ingatz lagi!

Cath · 1 year ago

awww.. sayang naman yung 5 years. But do whatever you think is best for you and also for him. :app9: Wish you all the best!

paola · 1 year ago

ms. jays ganda

awww. tulad nila. masaya ako at malungkot din at the same time. masaya, kasi ngayon eh magagwa mo na ang gusto mo na walang limitasyon. walang pipigil sa kung san ka masaya. nagawa mo na ren makawala sa nanakit ng puso mo. pero malungkot din kasi 5 yrs din kayo nagsama ni shou. siguro nga talagang hnd din si shou ang para sayo. ang kulang kasi kay shou eh masyado syang possessive. at dahil dun eh parate syang natatakot para sayo, to the point na ayaw ka na nyang lumabas. which is bad kasi wala naman taong gusto na maging feeling preso. kahit ganun pa man, you deserved a better man na mamahalin ka unconditionally. dadating din si mr. right ms. jays ganda! at pag nangyari un eh. forever and ever happy na kayong dalawa. pero sa ngayon, enjoy mo muna ang buhay single. yeah! party time! (haha. party kagad. jk lang un). pero enjoy mo muna ang time mo sa mga kaibigan mo ms. jays ganda. basta inggat parate 0628b :mymelo:

Nina · 1 year ago

Hindi man biro ang 5 years na sinamahan nyo pero gaya ng sabi mo may mga dahilan din para hindi na lang ipagpatuloy ang relasyon, unfair nga naman kung tutuusin dahil hindi ka pa naman talaga sya pag mamay ari at hindi ka rin naman robot para sabihan kung ano ang pwede mo gawin at hindi dahil tao ka, alam mo ang tama at mali. Sana makapag move on ka agad at saka it's not your lost sis..it his.. hindi na dadating yun panahon na makakahanap siya ng katulad mo dahil sa mundo ito iisa lang tayo.

Dito lang kami :) Enjoy being single hihihi minsan lang toh lol. z67

Tine · 1 year ago

tsk! kala ko mag tough ung sakin... walang wala pala. pinkakamatagal ko na ung one year. grabeh... halos parang hindi ko alam gagawin sa amin nun. tingin ko nga hindi pa ako naka move on eh... pero ung sa inyo na five years? yayyyy! ang tagal na nun ate jays! but i have to agree na kelangan ng i-end ang isang relationship kung tingin mo paulit-ulit nlng mangyayari ung ginagawa niya. nakakasawa na rin kasi un eh. :app12: tsaka parang wala na sa lugar ung pagseselos niya. magalit siya kung hindi niya ginagawa un... kaso he does the same thing di ba?

oh well... mas cool nga maging single. girls don't need guys to be happy. :app9:

Victoria · 1 year ago

aaw ate jays medyo nalulungkot ako kasi 5 years rin kayong nagsama. pero yun nga, bakit mo pa pagpipilitan yung relationship niyo kung di ka na masaya, dba? wishing you all the best and enjoy being single! dadating rin si mr. right sa tamang panahon z45

Reni · 1 year ago

Stay strong Jays ~ The right answer will come to you.

"Everything happens for a reason ~ Some things fall apart for other things to fall in place... but if it's always meant to be... then it will always find its way"

xo

janelle · 1 year ago

i had admired your relationship with shou dahil ilang years din kayo tumagal. at sobrang hindi ako makapaniwala na ganyan lang kababaw ang reason ng break up nyo. sorry for being mean ha, pero pano kayo tumagal ng 5 years kung yan lang din ang sisira sa inyo? so unfair yan.

now that you're single again, i hope that you'll enjoy life the way you want it to be. and along the way, makakahanap ka din ng right one for you. and im sure na maraming gusto na mag-alaga sa isang cute na cute at sobrang bait na ate jays. saka you deserve it din kasi. someone who will love you the way you are and someone who will respect you and your decisions.

mwahness! :2hato:

mayee · 1 year ago

aww ate that's so sad.. I know how you feel.. Ganyan din ako.. I dunno kung ano dapat kong sabihin ayokong pahinain loob mo or something. I've said the exact words before pero eto ko ngayon repenting. Eventually you'll move on but a piece of your heart will always remain as his property.. haaaayy advice ba to o ano.. Pero knowing your personality kayang kaya mo yan ate..Just be strong.. we love you ate jays z01

ishii · 1 year ago

awww grabe naman ... sa totoo lang sayang ung 5 years pero dont worry ganda kong ayaw na nya sayo e di wag diba? Marami pang iba dyan ... i know how you feel pero talagang ganayn, i hope okay ka na talaga ngayon .. Ang babaw nya grabe (sorry pero totoo at selfish din sya) .. strong ka naman e .. kayang-kaya yan! para sa akin para di ka malungkot .. sama ka lang sa mga friends mo atleast nalilimutan mo, diba? Ayun lang, nagulat ako .. grabe ..

kim · 1 year ago

whaaaat! dahil lng dun.. nakipagbreak sya. nde man lang nya muna inisip ung ibang bagay bago nya gawin un.. lahat naman ng tao may karapatang gumimik. that;'s soo unfair.. goodluck nlng po ate jays. ingat po kayo :2hato:

Mikyu · 1 year ago

naku sayang naman ang relationship nyo sis! pero kung ayaw mo na talaga sa kanya, sana maging maayos na ulit mga world ninyo. :)

Lhyz · 1 year ago

:app16: :app16: :app16: :app16: :app16:
wala lang, my gosh jays after 5 years ganun na lang yun? awww... nangyayari ba talaga yun? bigla na lang mawawala yung love.. oh my natakot naman ako bigla doon. though alam kong may dahilan kung bakit kayo nag break...pero syempre 5 years? aww.. pero sabi nga nila hindi sa taon yan db? nasa love yan kung nag go grow pa ba sya or hindi na.. kami ni sweetie dumaan na naman kami sa isang pagsubok sa relasyon namin (naks ang lalim) nauna ka pa maging single kesa sakin samantalang ina announce ko na sa twitter na malapit na ako maging single.. yun pala nauna ka na.. anyway, ok na kami ni sweetie ko.. pero na shock ako sanyo, after 5 years. I can't imagine lalo mag 5 years na kami sa dec 11.. my gosh, kamusta na kami nun? z04 z04 z04 basta jays we're still here for you, we love yah girl... yeah move on.. kaw pa nakikita kong strong ka.. pero I know na need mo ng companion so don't hesitate to call us.. we're just a twitter away!! :white10: 0628d z47

Lhyz · 1 year ago

pahabol* dun din ako natatakot sa paulit ulit na lang na dahilan ng pag aaway... kasi minsan nakakasawa na.. dun ko din na feel na nawawala na ung love kay sweetie.. anyhow, gudluck ganda! remember "single, but happy" z39

Yan · 1 year ago

ate jays~ aww... sad naman it has to end that way. oh, well kung ganun lang din naman okei narin siguro ang naging disisyon niyo. be strong :white10:

Jeannine · 1 year ago

:app10: oh! I´m so sorry for you! :app18: I hope, you are ok?! :app16:

Yesha · 1 year ago

Oh my,samishii na :app11:
but i know you have your reason and somehow i understand what you feel.
enjoy your life first and love yourself
if its really Shou,then God will permit it

Sometimes,people must realize something with their own decision.
you are a smart girl sweetie

tc always
gambatte ne jays chan

alex · 1 year ago

maybe it's for the best, Jays. if it was meant to be then this whole thing will blow over; I hope everything goes well.
and remember, we're all here to have your back, okay?
z69

pam · 1 year ago

aw. kaloka naman. ilang araw lang akong hindi nadaan dito eto na yung nabasa ko. z38 anyway.

tama yun te, move on for the better diba. meron pa dyan na mas makikita talaga yung worth mo. cheer up. :redpuso: z67

Jennie · 1 year ago

i don't know what to say ate. basta suportado kita. just enjoy your life make it more valuable. z67

Noreen · 1 year ago

Email ko na lang sayo reaction ko at masyadong CENSORED! hehehehe email/txt kita ha!

Keiyt · 1 year ago

Nakakalungkot namang 5 years na at lahat tapos ganun ganun na lang yung rason kung bakit siya makikipag break. Para sa akin, hindi tama yon. Pero dahil yon ang ginusto niya hayaan mo na siya Ate Jays. Pero sana mapagusapan niyo pa rin ng maayos para may formal closure :)

Good luck sa single life! :D

monica · 1 year ago

hi jays, sori about the sad news. alam mo, ang babaw ng reason niya. pati ako nainis, hehehe...mahirap yang sinasakal ka, diba? kaya nga si hubby ok lng sa kanya ng lumalabas ako w/my closest friends basta hindi lng magtagal masyado.

ay, cge parin siya call and text sayo? wag mo ng sagutin, ako pa sayo change ka ng number para hindi ka na niya guluhin. just move on with your life, alam ko na makaka-kita kapa ng mas mabait at caring kaysa kay shou.

cheer up! ingat and God bless! :)

Michelle · 1 year ago

aww, break na kau ni shou? sa tingin ko kaya hindi ka masyado naaapektuhan kasi lagi kayong magkalayo sa isat isa kaya nasanay ka na kahit makipag break sya sayo. basta kung gusto ko lang nang kausap andito lang kami para sayo.

Laine · 1 year ago

oo may time talaga na ganyan na kapag napuno ka na at nag decision ka na, your gonna stick with it. ikaw lang nakaka alam nyan ganda dba? i wish u all the best and stay strong! :2hato:

dianne · 1 year ago

owh.. tama lang un ate. kung always naman kayo nag-aaway hindi din talaga maganda. :white08:

La Reyn · 1 year ago

aw! im sad of what happened sa inyong dalawa.. hindi biro ang 5 years na relationship, i wish you all the best! sana, soon makahanap ka na din ng guy na mas mamahalin ka at yung mas mapapasaya ka.. take care always! z67

ichigo · 1 year ago

hi tita jays, ngayon ko lang na read ung post mo, tagal na akong nawalan ng connection..

how sad naman ung nangyari but wala akong pwedeng sabihin kundi Good Luck nalang po kasi hindi po masama ung ginawa ninyong dalawa, kasi po meron din po akong ganyang expirince about sa pagsasama ng BF ko as in Boyfriend, yah! you right same kaming lalake pero hindi ko naman sya masisi kung anu ung ginawa nya sakin eh.. una hindi na nya ako pinapansin pero i know kahit mali sya gumagawa parin ako ng reason sa sarili ko kung bakit nya ginagawa un,, well nakapag move on narin ako like you tita, pero sya narin ang humahabol ngayon sakin kasi marami na syang nakikitang ung guy na lumalapit sakin pero masakit pag nakikita ko sya sa harap ko habang may kasama akong ibang guy kasi "yumuyuko nalang sya" :app12: well tita jays kung anu po ung nasa heart mo follow nalang kasi ung heart natin walang mata eh nakikiramdam lang sya kung tama ba ung ginagawa natin.. kung mag cacall sya or may ttxt pa sayo try mong replyan or sagutin ung call nya and then pakinggan mo ung sinasabi nya, kung okie naman ung sinabi nya pagisipan mo pero pag hindi paganda ung sinabi nya sayo. well off mo na ung phone mo.. :app1: well tita hindi po ako masyadong experto sa LOVE and RELATION experince but kung anu po nasasabi ko right now ayun lang po ang maari kong i suggest sa inyo.. ghe po tita jays love you.. ingat ka lagi, muah**

irish · 1 year ago

z34 yay! sayang naman 5 years din yun.. pero tama ginawa mo. anu nga ba magagawa niya e yun ang gusto mo girls will always be girls. mga lalaki talaga abnormal. :app3: basta kung saan alam mo masaya ka go go go! so now na single ka na ulit. enjoy mo nalang. hahanap hanapin ka din nun. magdusa siya. :app19: ang babaw ng reason. super! basta kung kayo talaga. love and time na ang bahala dun. mahirap talaga pag unti-unti nawawala love dahil sa pagsasawa. :app14:

nyurnie · 1 year ago

aw... sana nga maka pag move on ka agad, kami ren ni mark. kaya kami nagbreak kasi lagi ren kaming nag aaway, nakakasawa na no? hay... sayang yung oras na nilaan mo para sa kanya, at yung mga pinagdaanan.. sayang talaga. :white07:

Diane · 1 year ago

im in shock. and speechless... :app12:
i hope you're okay though. good luck in moving on, kaya mo yan :mymelo:
you deserve to be happy so i hope you find THE ONE sa tamang panahon. :app2: gambatte ne.

Kammi · 1 year ago

Aww! :app16: Jays, I am sorry to hear that you and Shou broke up but sometimes it is for the best. They say that things happen for a reason and I am sure this is best for your personal growth and it will make you a happier, healthier person.

If it's meant to be, you two will cross paths again but for now, get yourself together. :2hato:

Love of love, Kammi. 0628e

TheChic · 1 year ago

whoa! kakaschock naman! i've been reading your posts since 2005 pa, i really thought you guys were getting married. Diba you already had plans and such? Well, I hope you are fine kasi mahirap talaga pag may heart ache. My advise to you is go out with your friends as much as possible wag ka magisa dahil maiisip mo sha. :( sad.. pero i hope you will be fine. Pero kung kayo talaga mag kakatuluyan everything will work out at the end. just pray and be happy:) jays si Jo to lumipat ako ng blog haha, mag pinagtataguhan kasi ako haha kaya di ko na nerenew yung pdunks.com ko :) ingats! mwah

Noreen · 1 year ago

Hope ur ok na.

kat pinksesa :') · 1 year ago

:white09: awww :( nakakasakal naman yung ginagawa nya.. i hope makapag move on ka agad ... :app12:

jhayelle · 1 year ago

life is too short to be sad. aksaya sa oras kung mag-emote so go out with you friends and enjooooooooooy! Manlalake kayo tonight hee hee! :app8:

Rina · 1 year ago

Hello, now that I read your post.. I was shocked to hear that you're breaking up with Shou of 5 years. Yes, move on is the right thing to do in your life. You should forget the past that you're with Shou. You had a great memories being with him and you should be happy that you gave him everything you've been with him so long. You should thank him for being love with you. And the last thing, being a single is much better than the love hehe. Just focus on your work and your family! We, blogger friends support you and cheer you up! Anyway, take good care of yourself!

P.S. I suggest you to find a right guy for you! hehe z58

bloomzy · 1 year ago

Sad, sorry to hear that z38
Keep strong, find someone new and better.

Em · 1 year ago

OMG medyo pareho (though not exactly the same) pala ang nangyari sa atin.. ganun din.. away ng away. away over sa pagpasok ko sa trabaho ng madaling araw.. oo unfortunately kinailangan kami sa upisina pero 10 pm naman ako umalis ng bahay d naman madaling araw. away over sa pagsama ko sa team building namin.. basta away nalang ng away dumating ako sa point na nainis na ako..